Looking Good From 9–5

 

Hi! Ali here, from Ali On The Run (http://aliontherun.wordpress.com).

When Ashley asked me to write a guest post for her, I happily and immediately obliged. Then, when she asked me to write a guest post about “How to Dress For The Workplace,” I laughed.

Me, a style guru? Hardly. My outfit of choice is short-shorts, a way-too-bright tank top and running shoes.

I’ve never considered myself a fashionista or a trend-setter by any means. However I do enjoy shopping and buying nice things for myself. My closet isn’t huge, but I’ve learned to make smart purchases and only buy things I adore and see myself wearing regularly.

I recently started posting my daily outfits on my blog and the feedback has been awesome. Maybe I do know what I’m doing after all?

So let’s talk workplace wear, shall we?

I’m a magazine editor and I work in an office that’s 85% (ish) women, and pretty much anything goes here, style wise. Jeans are fine, dresses are fine, and one girl regularly shows up wearing grey leopard print leggings. I’m not kidding…

As for me, I’ve managed to find a few tips and tricks to dressing up daily.

  1. Invest in a good, dark-colored blazer. Try to find one that fits well, but if it doesn’t, spend the money to get it tailored. It’s amazing how a blazer can make an outfit go from sloppy to professional. I throw mine on over both jeans and dresses, and use it as a jacket in the springtime. Blazer_1 Blazer_2
  2. Yes, you can wear a button-down shirt. For a long time, I avoided button-downs. I’m, well, chesty—I never thought I’d find a shirt that would close over my boobs. One day, I found one at J.Crew and fell in love. Not only did it fit perfectly, I loved how it looked. You can wear button-downs with skinny jeans and boots for a casual look, or tuck it in with a belt for something that’s more pulled-together and professional. These wardrobe staples go with everything and are so versatile. ButtonDown_1 ButtonDown_2
  3. Buy dresses! I wear dresses almost every day. They’re so easy—you just put one on, pick some fun jewelry and you’re done. No mixing and matching, no fussing with fits. I definitely recommend buying high quality dresses. Sure they may cost a bit more, but they’ll also last longer and fit better. Dresses easily go from daytime to playtime, and can be worn bare-legged in the summer or with tights in the winter.  Dress_3Dress_1 Dress_2
  4. Wear what makes you happy. I’ve never considered myself a girl who adores pink, but lately I’ve been really into wearing bright, hot pink. It pops and it makes me smile. Find a color that you love and don’t worry about how it looks on you—instead focus on how it makes you feel. The other day I woke up feeling cranky. I put on a bright skirt and couldn’t help but feel perked up. Hot pink won’t cure cancer or create world peace, but it can make a sad girl feel a little happier. Sweater
  5. Pull it together. I had a revelation last summer. I was getting dressed for a nighttime work event and wasn’t sure what to wear. I needed to be dressy, but not too fancy. My first thought: a sequined skirt and a plain tank top. Sloppy_1 Ick, I thought at first. It just looked so…sloppy. I decided to tuck in the shirt and throw on a thick belt.  Instantly a little better! Sloppy_2 I still felt too uncovered to be around coworkers, so the last thing I did was resort back to the LBB (little black blazer). Suddenly, my once-lame combo was an ensemble!     Sloppy_3 (1)
  6. Be confident. Duh, right? You can make anything look good if you feel good in it. Don’t be afraid to try something new—it took me 25 years to try tucking in my shirts—and try on everything, even if it looks lame at the store.

Stop by my blog (http://aliontherun.com) anytime for more on the whim fashion advice!

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Happy Birthday Dad!

 

The last 24 hours have quickly become a whirlwind. Due to my grandmother’s quick decline, Bo and I purchased tickets home to Savannah late last night. I can’t say enough positive things about Delta Airlines . They were helpful, patient, and understanding when I called last night. I was barely able to put sentences together without tears but they walked me through the entire process of purchasing bereavement tickets.

So while I’m busy packing and trying to pull myself together, I thought I would take a moment to wish this handsome guy a very, very happy birthday. Unfortunately I know today isn’t going to be about him and celebrating his 29th birthday, again, but I hope we can find some time this weekend to celebrate the way he deserves!

I’ve always been both a daddy’s girl and a momma’s girl; but at the end of the day, I am just like my father. I have his height, his features, his "gift of gab", and his personality. Don’t get me wrong, some of my BEST personality traits come from my mom.

You always drag us on adventures, both good and bad. (Really, who wants to go 4Wheeling for 8 hours, regardless of how cheap it is!?)37256_1262795224788_1676948544_497132_6806371_n

You love a good laugh more than anyone I know!

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You even have a bigger sweet tooth than me!

44524_1308527008054_1676948544_596351_5463600_n 47815_1308529128107_1676948544_596392_6852312_n Even though I’m married, you’ll still always be the first guy in my life!

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Happy Birthday Dad!

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A Cathartic Experience..

When my alarm went off this morning I quickly silenced it and went back to bed. I was not trudging to the gym at 5:30 today. I would sleep until my body was ready to wake up and face the day. Deep inside, I knew it was time. Regardless how ready I thought I was and how hard her illness had been on my family, I wasn’t ready for to face the reality that my grandmother would most likely pas by morning.

I slept until 7:30 this morning still tired and sore from emotion. I just kept waiting for the phone call from my parents.

It never came.

Instead, while I was on the phone with my mother, over 1200 miles away, the nursing home called my home.

"She passed away this morning, peacefully, holding onto the bear your daughter gave her."

That is all I needed to know.

Still filled with emotions, yet unable to really talk about them, I packed my suitcase this morning and focused my attention on work. I avoided phone calls as I knew I couldn’t complete a single sentence. I worked from the comfort of my bed, emptying my inbox, responding to emails, and posting my out of office message.

Finally around 11 I realized I needed to get out of the house. I needed to see the sunshine and blue sky. I laced up my shoes, threw on a jacket, and ran.

IMG_0358I ran for 45 minutes, thinking about everything, waving at the people I passed, and cried. I cried the entire time, just letting the emotions go and the love for her flow. I thought about what I’ll say on Saturday at her memorial.  I remembered the last time I saw her.

IMG_0348I now understand what people mean when they say running is cathartic. Those 45 minutes were the best run I’ve ever experienced. I kept a 9:04 pace, far faster than normal, while breaking every traffic rule as I ran down the bike lane of 2nd Avenue towards SoHo.

She was with me, looking down on me, every step of the way. IMG_0357

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