Long Run Play Mix

 

Last week I talked about how influential my new run mix was in powering me through the solo miles. A few people have emailed me requesting that I share the songs. I’m putting my pride aside and sharing the mix of songs that I loved listening to even though they are a very random mix!

image image These songs take me back through the years. Back in sixth grade I knew every word to Always be My Baby, Blink-182 is fresh out of my high school years, and OAR and John Mayer were the theme song to my freshman year at University of Georgia.

I hope you enjoy one or two of these for your playlist this week. I’m currently debating whether I should still go down to Philadelphia for this weekend’s half marathon and rocking out to Jay-Z.It’s been a really long week and it turn’s out that Leslie’s IT band is giving her big issues and may keep her from running it too. I could stay in New York City, run the Fitness 4 miler AND finish my 20 miler, all while still being able to catch up with Bo before I leave for Los Angeles. Believe it or not, due to our schedule this week we literally have not seen each other AWAKE since Monday. 🙁 That’s a sad story.

In fact, typing this, I think I’ve made my decision.

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Isn’t It Tough?

It’s been a little quiet around here this week due the my work schedule. I can’t complain about work because I truly love my career, especially this new role. The last two nights I had the opportunity to go out to dinner and drinks with many of my co-workers whom I only see once or twice a year. In fact, I hadn’t seen many of them since our national sales meeting in Las Vegas in April.  (Nope, Theodora isn’t one of my co-workers but she sure had fun partying with us!)

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My schedule on Tuesday and Wednesday looked like this:

  • 5:30am  I wakeup and immediately curl back up in bed. I’ve only been asleep a few hours and can easily rationalize sleep over working out. Then I realize that the next few days are going to be packed with evenings out, entertaining, and indulgence. I hop out of bed, remembering the way I feel after a workout. The dark morning sky and bright Empire State Building greet me as I step out into the cool morning air.

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  • 5:45am Out the door for either a personal training session or a run up 1st Avenue. I spend my run thinking about the day and watching the city wakeup. I finish my workout feeling invigorated and energized for my day.
  • 6:45am Hop in the shower
  • 7:00am-7:15am Attempt to blow dry my hair while responding to emails, apply makeup, and make sure I look especially nice since I’m going to be with my colleagues all day. I do work in the fragrance and cosmetic industry after all.
  • 7:30am Arrive at work and continue to work through emails while enjoying banana oatmeal and iced green tea. I skip the “free continental breakfast” provided for the meeting since it’s eggs and pastries.  I make sure to take my vitamins since I know they help with my energy throughout the day.

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  • 8am-6pm Sit in meetings all day long surrounded by chocolate, Twizzlers, sunflower seeds, and soda. Laugh constantly as we go through a healthy living session about “fueling for your day” with healthy and natural food choices, while these artificial treats haunt me.
  • 6:30-9pm Dinner at either a steak house or Mexican. Do my best to practice moderation by sipping the wine slowly and only eating half my meal portion. I also focus on the conversation more than the food since that’s more important.
  • 10pm-12:30am Get to know my new co-workers over a few more drinks. I focused on only having vodka sodas since these keep me hydrated and don’t leave me feeling bloated. I resist the amazing pizza my co-workers order after our 10 block late night hunt for food. Walk at least a few blocks home to clear my head before hopping a cab. IMG_2122 (480x640) 1:00 am Chug a huge glass of NUUN water before crawling into bed.

IMG_4425 (640x478)Everyday, at least one person asks me if training for a marathon and practicing my “healthy habits” are worth it.

    Isn’t it tough to wake up and workout every morning? Isn’t it tough to travel and have to stress about your runs? Isn’t it tough to have something control your life?

I am not going to lie and say that training for a marathon or having a healthy lifestyle is easy. But, it isn’t tough either. For me, at this point, it’s a life decision. I experienced 22 years of being lazy and overweight. I was never as energized, confident, or happy as I am now.

Some people’s schedule is controlled by NFL games, Real Housewives of NYC, parties, or other things that bring them joy and happiness. My schedule is happily influenced by marathon training.

Sometimes this mean’s missing an amazing Andrea Bocelli and Celine Dion concert with your friends after two indulgent days of long hours and partying. Deep down I knew tonight that an hour personal training session, homemade dinner, and early bed time were what my body needed to stay healthy. I felt it in my gut and never questioned my decision once. 

IMG_4428 (640x478)Doing things in life aren’t tough if you enjoy them as much as I enjoy my life at this point. Sure, there are days when marathon training and being healthy require me to plan ahead a bit, lose an hour of sleep, or alter my schedule. But this year, I’ve learned better than last year, how to ensure it doesn’t take over my life or stress me out even when I’m traveling more than 21 days in a month.

  • Do your long runs or hardest workout on whichever day is your best day. Don’t force yourself to wait until the weekend comes just because that seems natural. I absolutely love Friday long runs and wish I could enjoy one tomorrow!
  • Don’t make a scene unless you want the attention. Even though I will run or workout every morning while out in California, I’ll never use my workout as an excuse to go to bed early when I’m out with the client. Honesty is important but in certain situations it can just make it awkward. No one ever questioned the co-worker who said they were exhausted or had some work to do before going to sleep. 
  • Make it fun! I used to dread working out when I traveled because I always used the hotel treadmill. These days, I’ll run outside, even if it’s circles in a large parking lot, before the treadmill. Take advantage of social media and find a safe and enjoyable route in your new city or take a class at a local yoga studio or gym!
  • Moderation is key! I was able to really enjoy myself these past two days, going out each night with co-workers, and still stand on the scale this evening weighing a pound less than last week and feeling great. Making sure you don’t use these evenings as an opportunity to go crazy is key. I went out each night but I practiced moderation by sticking with my eating habits, using portion control, and sipping on wine or simple vodka drinks. I avoided desserts, sugary alcoholic drinks, and late night food. These things would have left me feeling bloated, tired, and disgusting.
  • Plan a recovery period. I have two nights in between these work events and my trip down to Philadelphia for the half marathon/20 miler. Therefore, these next two nights are my recovery period. This evening I spent an hour with my personal trainer, enjoyed a homemade turkey burger dinner, soaked in the tub, and will be in bed by 10:30. It’s sort of like interval training, making you stronger in the end!

IMG_4436 (640x478) I’m not saying my life or schedule works for everyone by any means. I’m just trying to help you realize that it is tough sometimes but it’s totally feasible and worth every minute!

IMG_4435 (640x480)Every time I put on this 2010 ING NYC Marathon finishers jacket a smile comes over my face and I remember the feeling I felt at 3:46pm on November 7th when I crossed that finish line!

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Marathons+Moderation: Guest Post #16

Good morning friends! I hope everyone is having a great week! This week I have the chance to hang out with all my East coast co-workers so it’s quite a busy and fun filled week but I’m loving it! I didn’t curl up in bed last night until 12:32am but I was up at 5:30 this morning for my morning run! Without it, I’d be half asleep today!

I’m so glad that you all are enjoying the Marathons+Moderation series! Each week I get a number of emails, in addition to the post comments, regarding the series. It really is here to help everyone realize that’s each person trains and approaches marathons in a different way!

In case you’re new to the series, today is the 16th guest post! Each week I feature a different runner who may have 12 years or tenure or just trained for their first marathon!

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Today’s guest post comes from Gia, a New York City runner who is training for her 5th marathon! This time around however, she’s the mother of two adorable twins! Training for a marathon after kids is a whole different ball game. Therefore, Gia’s guest post is split into two parts: what she’s learned from 5 marathons and then training as a mom. Part two will come next month so stay tuned!

Hi Healthy Happier Bear readers!  I’m Gia from RUNgiaRUN and I’m so honored that Ashley has asked me to share my thoughts on Marathons + Moderation with you all.

This November I will be running my 5th marathon!! (NYCM)  I did not take your typical route to becoming a runner.  I was a ballet dancer as a kid, never played organized or competitive sports and loathed PE.  I began running 10 years ago as a form of stress relief and I fell in love.  5 years later I did my first race and soon after I began marathoning.  Now I am hooked.  Running is my joy. 

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I know what you are thinking, oh she’s just another crazy runner girl.  I promise I’m not … I learned through experience.  I used to focus on the accomplishment and competition of running vs the joy that it brings me.  I almost burned out … which would be tragic because like I said, I love running!!

Finding the joy in running is something that takes work.  I like to say that the key to marathoning is to maintain the fun and the best way to maintain the fun is through moderation.  If you’re too serious about your training, the fun gets lost and you may not ever want to marathon again.  Don’t take it all so seriously.  Train smart but keep it light and don’t loose sight of the joy.

Here are my top 3 tricks for Maintaining the Fun and moderating your marathon training

Schedule a "Free Run"

One day a week I leave my technology behind and just run.  In marathon training I usually do this as a recovery run.  On this run I am purely running because I love it.  I’m not focusing on a specific pace or route.  I’m not running because my schedule says I have to.  I’m just running … and loving every second of it. 

Make running conversational

Marathoning can often be thought of as a solo sport.  I say make it social … I have made some of my best girl friends through running and we use our runs to catch up on each other’s lives.  If you are looking for a running partner there are a ton of ways to find one.  Twitter, send a tweet out to your network and see if anyone wants to join you for a run.  Local run clubs are also great, many running stores have group runs or can suggest groups that meet locally.  

Be creative with your run route

Find new routes, run while you travel, don’t get stuck in a rut.  My favorite way to do this is to search for runs on mapmyrun.com.   You can search by zip code and see other runner’s routes.  It really opens your eyes to different paths in your area.

disney princess (427x640) I hope that these tips can help you all find the balance of marathoning and moderation!  Happy marathoning to you all and Cheers to joy filled running. 

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