The J Word

As Spring race season is just getting kicked off back in the United States, my Facebook feed is filled with friends excited to run races of all distances. Some people are traveling down to Washington, DC this weekend for the Rock ‘n’ Roll DC marathon and half marathon while others are enjoying local races.

Some people have aspirations of setting new personal bests during these upcoming races while others are looking forward to enjoying warmer temperatures and coming out of winter hibernation.

More and more, I see and hear friends describing their accomplishments of training for a race, regardless the distance, with the word JUST.  I am guilty of this habit as well, doing the same yesterday during a Facebook conversation with a friend. He kindly complimented me and said that my early morning runs inspire his girlfriend to get out of bed. My response was naturally to say I JUST ran 5 miles and could never be an actual Nike ad. 

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I wish we would stop using this four letter word, replacing it instead with another description. JUST  is the way we naturally downplay accomplishments or minimize them. I see it more often in women, as women often find it uncomfortable to be proud of their accomplishments both personally and professionally, instead minimizing them. 

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Think about the effect this can have on both the person using the term and those around them. If we stick with the running example, this can play out in multiple ways.

I’m not running the marathon; I’m JUST running the half marathon.

1. This mentally makes the runner think that the half marathon isn’t as important or difficult as the marathon distance. This can result in under training, a less than optimal mental state and reduce the excitement of crossing the finish line. Earlier this week, my coach wrote a post about the mistakes people make when training for a half marathon, and this is the #1 mistake she captured.

2. This can affect other runners as well. Remember how you felt when you trained for your first race? Whether it was a 5k or a marathon, it felt like the most important race of your life and such an accomplishment. There are beginners all around us, looking forward to crossing their first finish line. If they are training their hearts out for their first half marathon, by downplaying that accomplishment and using the word JUST  you make them feel as if it isn’t a big accomplishment.

Allow yourself small victories. Don’t deny giving yourself credit for accomplishing something, no matter how insignificant it might seem at the time.

So next time someone asks you about your training or distance, own that distance with 100% of your heart and mind. Regardless your goal, don’t JUST  run the race. Instead, be proud and loud about the decision to cross the starting line. There are thousands of other people who have yet to leave the sofa and it is our responsibility as runners to motivate and inspire them through our accomplishments.

Thank you to Jess for inspiring this post and to those friends whom I’ve called out this week for using the term JUST, I apologize but you need to start owning your accomplishments!

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Ski Weekend in Verbier

We are back in Geneva after another wonderful weekend in Verbier.  While there are still many ski areas that Bo and I haven’t tried yet, our favorite is Verbier. Situated in Switzerland, two hours from Geneva, the town mixes a fully integrated ski region which makes it easy to ski anywhere in the valley. In addition to wonderful slopes, Verbier also has a well known après ski scenes.

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Once again, we rented our chalet via AirBnB. It’s hard to beat a chalet that has gorgeous valley views, fireplace, full kitchen and room for 8 close friends. We’ve found that it’s far cheaper to rent via AirBnB when traveling with a group than staying at a hotel.

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We finally found some ski weekend balance, enjoying one relaxing night at home, including lounging in front of the fire, cooking dinner together and then a drink or two at Farinet Lounge.  Our home cooked feast included roasted leg of lamb, green bean salad, roasted sweet potatoes, cornbread, and birthday cake. After our baking experiment on Thursday night, Bo and I were so thrilled that both the cornbread and chocolate peanut butter cake turned out. They turned out so well that both were all weekend long by the group.

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A popular bar in the heart of Verbier, Farinet Lounge is a bit more relaxed than some of the other options while still providing dancing and music.

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When we weren’t eating and dancing, we were on the slopes enjoying the fresh powder, blue sky and sunshine. Spring skiing is my absolute favorite, no frozen fingers and wind burn, just lots of empty slopes.

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This was the first weekend when Emily and I had enough courage to go off the slopes and try our hand at moguls. Scared and overwhelmed were the first emotions that I felt but after getting some courage, I loved the new challenge. Maddie, our instructor, helped me overcome my fears and break each group of moguls into a manageable group.

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There is no better way to end a day on the slopes than with mountain views and delicious drinks from Le Rouge. One of the only après ski locations in Verbier which you can ski directly to from the slopes, Les Rouge features DJ, an outdoor balcony and delicious espresso martinis!

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Silent Saturday – Spring Ski Style

There is nothing like Spring skiing! The weather is warm enough for après ski outside, but the snow is still perfect for a full day of skiing!

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