It’s been more than 10 days since I arrived in Geneva and while it is definitely not home yet nor am I “all settled in” as people keep asking, it’s starting to feel a bit more comfortable.
This morning during my run I spent the 5 miles thinking about the experience thus far and trying to process some of the experiences. Here is a list of thoughts that came to mind in no particular order. I titled this post with a #1 as I’m sure this will be the first of many posts like this.
Once I get a camera or iPhone my posts will become far more regular as I’ll have pictures to share. Until then, you get to enjoy my random thoughts. Also, this stock photo is exactly what I experienced this morning at 5:45 as I ran around Lake Geneva. I stopped at one point and just sat for a few minutes towards the end of my run to reflect on the amazing blessing that I have right now. Within a 12 hour time period I watched the sunset while swimming in the lake and watched it rise while running along the lake path. (source)
– I really miss having an iPhone but not for the reasons my mom or Bo would expect. I don’t miss the social media aspects. I miss being able to easily call my friends and family. I miss having texting to make plans or confirm sharing funny events and pictures. I miss Instagram as my way to share Geneva with everyone. I miss Google maps immensely, especially when after walking for 45 minutes you realize you’ve walked the wrong direction and you can’t find anyone who knows where the small street your walking is located.
-Skype is absolutely amazing.
-Learning French is very difficult when you’ve retained more than you realized of your Spanish minor. Today my French tutor cried he was laughing so hard at my “Sprench.”
-It felt wonderful to dedicate 90 minutes to speaking and learning a new skill. It’s been a while since I had something to study like a new language and I’m welcoming the challenge.
-Swimming in lake water which is clear is far more pleasant than swimming in water that is murky.
-I am willing to spend more money on fresh produce from the farmers market but I haven’t missed Starbucks or other processed foods, except peanut butter.
-According to Google Maps there are no running stores in Geneva. At first I thought this must be false information but after speaking with people it seems to be the case. Looks like my friends will be bringing me new running shoes and Shotblocks for marathon training.
-I am very thankful for the friends I have in Geneva. Without the support of Nico and Renaud, making this move would have been far more difficult. For those of you who have asked, we became friends while working together previously within P&G. Now I am blessed to have four friends in the Geneva P&G office whom have been absolutely amazing. They have invited me to evening and weekend events, answered my numerous questions and help me understand the Geneva culture both within and outside the office. Next Monday I am bringing the four of them together for the first time for an evening on the lake. It should be quite reflective of this international city and office: 1 Scotchman, 1 Frenchman, 1 Belgian, and another US Expat.
-People send Outlook invitations for lunch. As I mentioned, the lunch hour is sacred. This means that people value that time and plan in advance how they’ll spend it. Sometimes you’ll receive a networking invite. Other times its a friend who wants to catch up on the weekend events. But, it is safe to say that most people have their lunch calendar filled a week or so in advance.
-Using appliances is very difficult when the knobs and dials are all labeled in French or German. It’s even harder when the manufacturer doesn’t have manuals on their website translated.
-I will be learning to drive manual again in a few weeks. Almost all cars in Switzerland and France are manual versus automatic. Bo and I plan to buy a used car to enjoy on the weekends which means the likelihood that we’ll be able to find an automatic is slim to none. My dad and I may just have a driving school when my parents are here in September. It will take him back to the days when I was 15 and we did circles and parallel parking drills in the school parking lot.
-I didn’t realize how much I missed water sports and being in water until I arrived. While I realize I had views of the water when I ran along the Hudson and East River in NYC, it’s a bit different when you can actually go in the water and see your hands and the fish swimming around you. There is nothing like ending a long day with two hours on the lake watching the sunset with friends.
-Floor to ceiling windows in an office make a world of difference. My desk faces the mountains and has afternoon sunlight which is perfect for keeping up my energy levels and soothing my soul during a stressful moment.
-I miss our furniture more than I thought. I figured that having temporary furniture would be fine but it’s been 10 years since I lived in a dorm setting and I don’t miss the furniture style one bit. Cooking with limited tools and having a very uncomfortable couch to sit on doesn’t make one want to be at home very much.
-I lost 8 pounds in the first 10 days here. I was doing nothing to try and lose weight but I think it is in keeping with the European way of life. I walk over 2 miles each day in addition to my run, I have eaten barely any processed foods since arriving, I’m less stressed, and I am sleeping 7-8 hours each night.
-I love living in another city with amazing and efficient public transportation. Taxi cabs are EXCEEDINGLY expensive here and I believe that one of the reasons is that the only people who need them on a regular basis are tourists and business travelers who don’t understand or care to use TPG, the Geneva tram and bus system.
-I have a new appreciation for the written word. Due to the time change getting people on the phone isn’t that easy. I’ve been sending my parents and Bo daily notes, sometimes paragraphs and other times 1-2 sentences, capturing the day’s adventures. In addition, I cried last night when I received my first letters from friends back in the states. Who knew a simple postcard could be so powerful. My friend Katie made it fun by asking me questions at the end. I thought I’d capture the questions and answers here for you guys!
What is my favorite French word so far? Bonjour. It’s the only French word I truly believe I can pronounce appropriately at this point. Please see above “Sprench” reference for more information.
What new food do I love and what do I miss? I am 100% in love with bircher rouge with is bircher museli made with berries. I have had it every morning for breakfast and while I have no clue what the calories or ingredients are I know it is made fresh each morning and that I lost weight the first 10 days here so it must be living up to it’s superfood reputation. I miss peanut butter and ice. Ice is available but not quite as common as it is in the states.
-I definitely miss my friends and Bo but at the same time I am so thankful for this opportunity that I have to focus on that. I have made a priority to write letters, emails, and Skype with people more than I would have previously while on vacation or business trips. Bo and I have talked all but one night via Skype and having that time to connect has made a world of difference.
-I’m really excited for my first London weekend with Bo this weekend!
That’s all I can remember for now. If you have any random questions, feel free to leave them in the comments and I’ll answer them and share in future posts.
I’m confused – did Bo move to London and you move to Geneva?
Jen, I will address this in tonight’s post!
Thank you for such an honest post. The first few posts were so impressive, but its good to know that you are working on finding a new normal. I’m not overly surprised that there aren’t running stores, but I’m sure your friends/family will be happy to bring them with!
There are running stores!!!!
And the best one – Running Planet – is close to your place! 🙂
What are these running stores? I’m just curious. I haven’t been to Geneva before. 🙂
I see from the comment above that there are running stores, so what I was going to say about wondering where people buy their running supplies is moot. Anyway, Geneva sounds absolutely gorgeous and I love how your food is healthier by default. Sounds wonderful!
Will you be getting your own furniture soon? I hope so, I’m sure it will make a huge difference in your comfort level!
Also, what’s the situation with you and Bo? Is he living in London right now? And you guys are going to be together on the weekends? I would love to read a post about what his experience has been like!
Don’t worry if you struggle to find running shops in Geneva, there are plenty here in London!
Skype is a total lifesaver! It totally makes a difference to be able to see your guy when you’re apart. You’re very brave to move to two different places. I guess it helps a little that Geneva is so beautiful =)
Be careful losing too much weight!
Thanks for the thoughts. Very real; I hope you continue feeling settled in and enjoying your new space/country!
Tell Bo hi from us!
Loved this post! so honest!
I look forward to hearing more about your Geneva/London adventures!
Such a great post girl! I think you’re going to find MANY of these posts along your journey 🙂
Why is Bo in London while you are in Geneva?
I am going to address this in today/tonight’s post. 🙂
Ahh, I forgot this about Switzerland: you have to make dinner plans with friends 3 weeks in advance, and they work out without fail, without any reminder, like clockwork.
Just make sure to not miss out on Spruengli and Teuscher chocolates! They are made fresh every day.
Hi,
I read your blog all the time, but it’s the first time I have commented. In 6 weeks I will be leaving Wellington, NZ to go and volunteer for a microloans org in Oaxaca, Mexico for a year so I am keen to learn some your your tips and tricks on being an expat. What grounds you when you are homesick? How are you avoiding overload (panic) when everything is different inc the language?What extra stuff would you have bought from home? Sorry for the inquisition.
Thank you for sharing. I imagine the loneliness would be the hardest part. What a gift that you have friends their already who can fold you in.
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Just started reading your blog and love it! Congratulations on your move and the new experiences to come. You may already have said it but who do you work for? What is your job? And are you still working for the same company you worked for in New York? What about Bo? what is his job? I am actually French living in the US and envy all the fresh food you get to experience. Bonne chance!
I love your posts! But I’m curious. Why is it taking so long to get an iPhone in Geneva?
One thing about not living in North American anymore that takes getting used to is GoogleMaps is no longer super reliable and loaded with area info. Don’t rely on it as much as you did in the US source of locating stores and restaurants, the info just isn’t as accurate. Hope that helps!
There are LOADS of running stores in London so you can stock up whilst you’re here. Also, fyi it’s Scotsman for a Scot!!! Lake Geneva is so beautiful, envious of your runs around it!
I love learning new languages! One day I hope to be in a foreign country and be able to study a new language from the locals instead of a textbook. Sounds like the move is off to a good start!
Lots of good running shops in London. Try and find a Sweatshop would be my recommendation. And you can get peanut butter here too. Whole Foods even has American brands.